Story 35 - Alumni Advice to Leadership Mentors
College goes fast, and making the most of it can create lasting memories and opportunities. Over the years, and particularly the last year in preparation for our 75th Anniversary, we’ve been collecting advice from NHRI alumni to share with leadership mentors.
“Make time for those relationships, those friendships, I mean that’s something I was really blessed to be able to do. I’m so thankful I took the time with those individuals because those relationships have now lasted 10 years, hopefully 20 even 30 years. There is nothing like old friends, and it makes you want to cry, thinking about the gift of friendship.”
“This is the same advice I gave my kids, you know, who you are is partially a reflection of who you spend your time with. So find people that have positive energy, that will challenge you and that you make you better. The other piece of advice is to go into a new situation expecting to take on a leadership role. Even if you don’t, you’re going to be a better teammate if you’re considering the perspective of a leader.”
“I’ve always found the key to happiness is gratitude. The more grateful I am, the happier I am.”
“Embrace it. Don’t put it last, don’t. And, I mean, you’ll never have that opportunity again in the same way. Cherish the heck out of it. And, put everything you put in it, you’ll get 10 times back.”
“Make time for NHRI now. Make it possible for future students with continued support. Find new and unique ways to make a difference in the lives of others.”
“Enjoy the experience and the people. You’re gaining some very valuable insight on a great way to live your life. [NHRI] is a way to learn a lot of valuable life skills, interpersonal skills, and leadership skills.”
“NHRI helped me realize everybody has a story. [There’s value in] being more of a listener and taking the time to sit back and let others share their story.”
“Enjoy your NHRI experience. The lessons learned in are ones that you will utilize far beyond your college years.”
“Lean in! NHRI is a lifelong experience, but the time spent as an active mentor is particularly impactful. Enjoy your time and those that you’re spending it with.”
What advice would you share? Email 75yearsnhri@gmail.com!